I'm not a whiner

1 Corinthians 10:10 - And do not grumble, as some of them did—and were killed by the destroying angel.

I’m not a whiner. There are times when I would comment on something that’s not properly done, but it doesn’t make me a whiner. Unfortunately, staying here at home ( because I am working home based ) makes me complain A LOT inside my head. I just hate the way my mom and dad and my brother do their stuff undesirably. I just can’t tolerate their ways and even if I want to shut my mouth, my head keeps on spinning and it makes me lose my sanity sometimes.

I hate the way my mom cooks in the kitchen and leaves every mess afterwards.
I hate the fact that she doesn’t stock groceries and goes to the market every single day.
I hate that she is almost everday out in the church (because she has SO many obligations) or with friends which leaves her responsibilities at home hanging.
I hate that she thinks she’s the only one doing all the chores here at home when it is sooo false.
I hate that she thinks she knows everything and she wants to outwit every person around and she doesn’t accept other people’s opinion. (Sigh)
I hate that when she goes out to buy something, she always takes too long because she gets stuck talking with people. (Well, not necessarily gossiping)
I hate that the house isn’t always clean because she’s always preoccupied.
I hate that she doesn’t know how to run our business well but she thinks it’s the other way around. (Whew!)
I hate that my brother is such a lazy pig and acts like a king.
I hate that he doesn’t value every single penny we spend for his education.
I hate that he doesn’t know any household chores, even cooking noodles or frying egg!!! (Gosh!)
I hate that he doesn’t listen and accept criticisms.
I hate that my dad is very kind but disorganized.


The Bible clearly says that complaining is a sin. It shows an attitude that you are ungrateful and bitter. Altright. I know that we can't change people and I can't act like a dictator by telling me to do this and that. But...their ways are killing me. So now, I'm just tuned in to my favorite songs, trying to calm my spirit. ^^

Glory to God!~