Wednesday, August 5, 2009

Free talking class gone bad

I was talking to a student who's been getting on my nerves for quite a while now. I always say I am someone who is frank, worse, sometimes brutally frank. I wasn't able to control myself today and I lashed him during our class due to something I just can't stand. I was happy I did that but after a while, I wish I didn't do that.
Mr K likes blabbering about his personal life and although I don't like it, I can't do anything about it because he enrolled for 3 days business class ( M-W-F) and 2 days free talking class ( T-Th). On Tuesday and Thursday he would talk about his family, job and trips abroad. Of courese I try to introduce new topics every now and then; but I guess some people are just really into talking about themselves. It must be easier for them to divulge their life styles since we don't personally know each other.
What I didn't like today was his story of promiscuity. He told me about his vacation trips in Shanghai, Bangkok and his constant visit to red-light districts in Seoul. NO woman would want to listen to a man talk about his cheating or two-timing. I digressed but he continued with his crappy story. And then, with that serious tone of my voice, I said, " Mr K! You have a daughter right? In the future, she'll probably experience a lot of heartbreaks. Perhaps men will not take her seriously, cheat on her, make her cry; leave her miserable and devastated. And the reason is because you're sowing a seed of immorality so more likely, she'll reap it in the future". He was so surprised when I said that so he lashed back and said, "do you have a boyfriend? maybe he's doing the same thing". Whoa!!! I should have just kept quiet. Arrggh!!!
Anyway, I don't trust anyone but God. I know my boyfriend very well and by any measure he's the most beautiful person I 've ever met and I don't need to doubt him or anything.
Sigh. Next time he'd talk about "that" I hope to have the courage to talk about God and not be judgmental.

2 comments:

SI PI EY on Board said...

you should have asked him "can I have your wife's number?" or maybe "do you know your wife is also my student?" (kahit hindi)hahaha! baliw din student mo ah.

the-emotional-side-of-me said...

uu nga eh! sarap sapakin db! hehe